Many dog owners worry they’re not their pet’s favourite person – especially when their pup seems more excited to greet someone else. But experts say there’s a simple method to turn things around
Are you your dog’s favourite? (stock)(Image: Oliver Rossi via Getty Images)
A simple “30-minute method” could hold the secret to deepening your relationship with your dog – and might even make them prefer you over other members of the household, experts say. Plenty of pet owners fret they’re not their dog’s “favourite person”, particularly when their pooch appears more thrilled to see someone else. However, guidance from dog specialists Rover indicates there’s a simple way to change this.
In a statement, Rover said: “If you have the feeling you’re not your dog’s favourite person, don’t despair. You can improve and increase the bond between you.” According to specialists, the secret involves setting aside at least 30 minutes of concentrated, one-to-one time with your dog each day.
Though this doesn’t cover passive pursuits like walking, allowing them to wander the garden, or lounging together while watching telly.
Rather, the time needs to be “active and focused” to genuinely forge a connection.
They suggest various bonding activities that can help strengthen your relationship, including playing games like fetch, tug-of-war or frisbee.
Training sessions are also strongly recommended, whether you’re teaching your dog fresh tricks or reinforcing skills they’ve already mastered.
Not only does this offer mental stimulation, but it also helps establish trust and communication between owner and pet.
For those wanting to take things further, activities like agility courses, dock diving, or even popping to a dog gym can help create a stronger team dynamic.
Mealtimes can even become moments for bonding. Specialists recommend using high-quality food and maintaining eye contact while feeding to strengthen your relationship.
Additional straightforward techniques include grooming sessions or treating your dog to a gentle massage – both help them link you with comfort and affection.
The guidance emerges as certain dog owners have turned to social media questioning why their pet seems to favour another person.
One Reddit user expressed their bewilderment, posting: “My friend has a dog, but every time I’m around she follows me instead of her. She listens to my commands and always sits beside me.
“She greets me with excitement and even tries to follow me home, while my friend has to hold her back.”
Despite this behaviour, fellow users were swift to reassure them it doesn’t necessarily indicate the dog loves them more.
One user said: “It’s like ‘grandma syndrome’. Kids often behave better for grandparents or babysitters because they don’t see them as often, so the time feels more exciting and fun.”
Another user added: “My dogs act completely differently when family visit because they get spoiled. They’ll listen instantly and be full of enthusiasm, but at home it’s a different story.”
Specialists concur that consistency is crucial for developing a strong bond. Rover stated: “Bonding occurs naturally between dogs and the people who treat them well. Take good care of your dog, socialise them, give them positive experiences, and respect their unique personality.”
Even though some dogs may continue to show enthusiasm towards visitors, investing that dedicated daily time could be the game-changer in becoming their favourite person.
